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shahrukh khan said:

biggest problem is UNDERSTANDING..and their inlaws

da only solution 2 dis prob is communication
Posted 18 Mar 2008

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mr nice guy said:

prime minister aur president ko bhi hamere tarha afsoos huwa hai... hameri buri adat hai ke foran tankeed shuru kar detey hein..ab waqt a gaya hai ke hum unite ho jae..abhe bhi na huwe tu phir Allah hi hafiz is mulk ka..


ur partly rite dat v shud b united but jus take a look at wat the govt is upto n den tell me k watever dey r doin is dat rite?log jo keerey makoron ki tarah mar rahe hain vill dese leaders not b accountable 4 all dis on the day of judgement dey r leading lavish lives n just take a look around u
Posted 18 Mar 2008

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sun_shine said:

Assalam O alaikum All of You
I am starting a new topic"Close Up with Sun Shine".
this is only an introduction thread for that.
Is main har week a Member will be My Guest
aur Hum un say unki Life k hawalay say Questions Pochain gay,sab Members sawaal pooch saktay hain.
Next week phir new Guest.
At one time 2 guests bhi ho saktay hain
it will be more fun agar yeh do members aik doosaray ko buhat achi tarah jantay ho
Suppose Agar yeh 2 Members husband n wife,brother n siter ya best friends ho
so what you think
Should i start it or not?
Wsalam


nice topic
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Royaa Afghan said:

danie said:

~Nilam PaRi~ said:

i think wen one is single tu one wants 2 get married n wen one gets married tu u wana b single again wohi baat jo shaadi karey woh b pashtaye aur jo na karey wo b.....its human nature 2 complain about wat one has n want 2 want wat u don have.....



Aapki baat kafi had tak sahi hei. It is not human nature to get fully satisfied with anything. Lekin agar hum is matter ko disscuss kare- to mere khayal mei shadi ke pahle aur shadi ke baad mei person (girl/boy) ki life aur life style aur zaruraton mei change aa jata hei. Jaise ek larrke ki nazar se dekhe to- shaddi ke baad use wife ko bhi time dena hota hei (an addition in new life). Apne life ka ek integrated and respectable part accept karna hota hei (by heart). Use ye baat samajhni hoti hei ki uski wife ki ijjat bhi uski ijjat hei. Aur apne ghar mei use ek respectable place dilane ke liye sabse pahke use khud apni wife k\o respect dena hota he.Agar wo ise achi tarah adjust, tuned kar pata hei to uski wife uski jindgi mei khushian hi khushian bikher deti he. agar nahi to dono ki life pareshan ho jati hei. So, it is all matter of adjustment and tuning.

yeh u r right
per problems kis waja sy hoty hain
ky woh apni wahi old life main rehta/rehti hain
en sary changes ko accept nahi karta to es waja sy woh sajta/samajti hain ky shadi main ny kiu ki
lekin ager woh es new life ko khushi sy accept kary to
yeh new life old life sy kafi behter hoti hain
tab app akly nahi hoty har waqt app ka sath deny wala koi hota hain

I agree wid da both ov u..it's a matter of giv n take esp in a husband n wife relationship da more easily n comfortably u accept ur life partner n his or her family members ur partnner wil easily accept u 2
Posted 15 Mar 2008

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no
Posted 12 Mar 2008

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gud gud
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i think wen one is single tu one wants 2 get married n wen one gets married tu u wana b single again wohi baat jo shaadi karey woh b pashtaye aur jo na karey wo b.....its human nature 2 complain about wat one has n want 2 want wat u don have.....
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nice topic dude
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~CHANDNI~ said:

~Nilam PaRi~ said:

udaas larki 24....u said k he luvs ur family n doesn't wana let dem down...tu meri mano n sabr karfke ye phase bardaasht kar lo i know its easier said dan done bt trust me he will soon regret wat he's done n den u'l b da best couple around n u'l feel glad dat u made dis relationship stick wen u were totallyy hopeless






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good going kollest1!
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Congrats!
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udaas larki 24....u said k he luvs ur family n doesn't wana let dem down...tu meri mano n sabr karfke ye phase bardaasht kar lo i know its easier said dan done bt trust me he will soon regret wat he's done n den u'l b da best couple around n u'l feel glad dat u made dis relationship stick wen u were totallyy hopeless
Posted 22 Feb 2008

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MISS SCORPIO said:

Dude, I have a hard enough time trying to dicipher what the hell it is that you're trying to say half the bloody time!!


jani meri dil ki baat ki hai miss scorpio...
Posted 15 Feb 2008

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~CHANDNI~ said:

lov   u pari how are u


i'm fine how r u?
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cheeta said:

naye murgi pata rahi hoo dhamaka unda k liye


aap kyun jealous ho rahe hain
Posted 15 Feb 2008

Topic: I vote for ?

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physical abuse of women...men shud b caned if they physically abuse dere wives
Posted 14 Feb 2008

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~CHANDNI~ said:


pari love u


love u 2!
Posted 14 Feb 2008

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but khelenge kia?
Posted 14 Feb 2008

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gud one Only Arbab khud likha hai?
Posted 14 Feb 2008

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Aasera said:

taali do hath say bajti hay
if you can work and take care of yourself thn leave him.
but b4 this aik bar baat zaror karna usay,maybe usay sirf ahsaas dilanay ki zarorat ho.
baki my prayers are with you


yup i agree aid aasera try it...it mite work n us24 dun think dat ur ugly n he's doin u a favour by makin u his wife n keeping u in his house...isn't it better 2 liv without such a person dan 2 live with him?
Posted 11 Feb 2008

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Welcum bak!
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Ashii said:

no its not a sin
apni marzi se jeene ka haq sab ko hona chaiye
unless it doesnt hurt others


agreed
Posted 11 Feb 2008

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Ashii said:

......


and leaving












baad mei aau gi
jab me aati hu sab bhaag jate hein


u r nvr online wen i am so naraz mat hon....
Posted 11 Feb 2008

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jazakAllah
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WELCUM....haf fun posting
Posted 09 Feb 2008

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welcum g welcum. ...humain b batao chandni who's hayat???
Posted 09 Feb 2008

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udaaslarki24 said:

what are the rules for divorce? what are they in islam


well i duno much bt if one is not happy wid dere hubby n he is not providing u da basic tings n not givin u ur rites den u can file for divorce which is called khulla wen asked from da girl.....khulla can only b filed from da girl's side if she ticked da column of havin da rite 2 divorce her husband at da time of nikah wich usually ppl duno n dun do
Posted 09 Feb 2008

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Ashii said:

RULES ?
i guess she can ask simply her husband,, bhai jii im not happy with ya, jaan choro meri khud bhi khush raho and mujhe bhi rehne do


lolz
Posted 09 Feb 2008

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MISS SCORPIO said:

dosselpoh said:

waiting likha ha anti:P twanoo classaan deni pain giyan



Veh bandara, zara spelling tah dekh!!

Grrr, aaj kaal deh bandaar!!

Koi haal hi nai!!

dil pe mat le yar
Posted 09 Feb 2008